update
well...after about 20 phone calls (being on hold at 20 minutes a piece) to their customer service reps, i finally got it all cool. some of those people just said the same thing over and over again, "it'll should arive in 2-3 days, some items ship separate." 2 leafs isnt 2 separate 'items'!! its a set, 1 order! anyways i got this really cool chick who said 'let me call the warehouse and ill call u right back" i was like riiiight sure ok, ill be waiting by the phone. sure enough she called back and said she would send out anohter the next day. so i guess just be persistent with those clowns and let em know whats up. ill never order from them again to say the least.