ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?!

Trucks_69 · 02-03-2010, 12:30 PM

wow i'm impressed with all the words of wisdom... paul you nailed it on the head... and i'm totally with you on this one
i donnot plan on talking to her at all... she wants nothing to do with me, i get that...

and i've been trying to meet new girls but it seems like i haven't been able to meet anyone i can connect with...

MeltingPlastic · 02-03-2010, 12:32 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Trucks_69

and i've been trying to meet new girls but it seems like i haven't been able to meet anyone i can connect with...

dude do you know how many boring dates i've been on! it takes a while sometimes... and then othertimes, like the girl i was dating last month, i met through a mutual friend at the bar and alice in chains came on and we hit it off completely from there... shes a flake and was a waste of my time in the end but you'd be surprised where/how you meet people

Trucks_69 · 02-03-2010, 12:37 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by MeltingPlastic

dude do you know how many boring dates i've been on! it takes a while sometimes... and then othertimes, like the girl i was dating last month, i met through a mutual friend at the bar and alice in chains came on and we hit it off completely from there... shes a flake and was a waste of my time in the end but you'd be surprised where/how you meet people

well i'm going out with this girl friday, i'll give it a shot see where it goes...
but i just haven't been meeting many new girls as of late

CatDaddy52 · 02-03-2010, 01:33 PM

Just don't try TOO hard.....then you come across as being desperate. You'll need to put the broken relationship behind you. Just do things with pals that you used to enjoy doing....takes your mind away from bad thoughts.

Chalk it up to one of life's learning experiences. Seems like good things happen when you least expect it.

Trucks_69 · 02-03-2010, 01:41 PM

yea i deff don't try too hard

90blueS10 · 02-03-2010, 01:50 PM

id date you steve. just for a ride in the truck.

Kovz · 02-03-2010, 02:00 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by 90blueS10

id date you steve. just for a ride in the truck.

know how I know you're gay?

Kovz · 02-03-2010, 02:06 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Trucks_69

well i'm going out with this girl friday, i'll give it a shot see where it goes...
but i just haven't been meeting many new girls as of late

I know it sounds lame, but have you considered or tried online dating websites? Like match or e-harmony or anything? People laugh at them, but there is some pretty cool chicks on there that are in the same boat as some guys... don't want to meet them at the bar, etc.

MeltingPlastic · 02-03-2010, 02:07 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Kovz

I know it sounds lame, but have you considered or tried online dating websites? Like match or e-harmony or anything? People laugh at them, but there is some pretty cool chicks on there that are in the same boat as some guys... don't want to meet them at the bar, etc.

trav308 · 02-03-2010, 02:11 PM

You sound like me 10yrs ago. Don't call her. Live your life and move on. I was down the same road and moved on. But the minute I got with someone else there she was begging to get back with me. Though I was a dumbass and got back with her. Worst mistake of my life by far. Now i'm with a girl that is distantly related to her and she still tries to cause shit between us and our family. Just a good thing that everyone knows how psycho she is so no one pays much attention to her. But trust me, find a new spot to insert penis and you'll be fine.

***00xtremeninja*** · 02-03-2010, 02:15 PM

it's always when you aren't looking for someone that they end up coming around. just take it easy and see what falls into your life.

***Hucko*** · 02-03-2010, 02:27 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Trucks_69

wow i'm impressed with all the words of wisdom... paul you nailed it on the head... and i'm totally with you on this one
i donnot plan on talking to her at all... she wants nothing to do with me, i get that...

and i've been trying to meet new girls but it seems like i haven't been able to meet anyone i can connect with...

well.. standing them up on a date isnt gonna help you 'connect' with anyone.......

***Hucko*** · 02-03-2010, 02:29 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Trucks_69

well i'm going out with this girl friday, i'll give it a shot see where it goes...
but i just haven't been meeting many new girls as of late

Is this the same girl I had to talk you into going on a date with? The one you wanted to ignore?

Trucks_69 · 02-03-2010, 03:19 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Hucko

Is this the same girl I had to talk you into going on a date with? The one you wanted to ignore?

yes...

and no i'm not gonna do online stuff, they charge money and that's like just this side of prostitution in my eyes

90blueS10 · 02-03-2010, 03:23 PM

abra kadabra.

http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/w4m/1580074919.html

stv-lo · 02-03-2010, 03:42 PM

Isn't that a bit of a drive for you, Ryan?

snoplow · 02-03-2010, 03:55 PM

Sweet Tooth · 02-03-2010, 04:09 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Hucko

she is 17ish, she might not understand anything... and she may not give a shit and hang up

is he saying this as in thats how old she is mentally? or just lowering the age so the leg humpers wont ask for pics? if she is actually 17 and your 24 you should be old enough to know that aint going to work.

Half your age +7 man thats the rule

bubbagt57 · 02-03-2010, 04:10 PM

you might be catching "THE GAY"

bubbagt57 · 02-03-2010, 04:15 PM

but honestly dude life's a bitch being turned down is part of the game, It is what it is and it time to find another one just hit on EVERY GIRL(by every I don't mean every, I mean attractive sane looking that is not dating one of your friends girl)

kjm762 · 02-03-2010, 04:43 PM

Put the ex-girlfriend in the chipper & all will be good again!

Really, the dreams are supposed to be mental house-cleaning, so my wife says. You seem to have some unfinished business with her you feel you need to take care of. Try this, as it worked for me years ago after my 1st wife & I split...sit down & write her a letter with your feelings about what happened, what she did to you & the affects it has had. Go thru it all. Then read the letter. You don't have to mail it. It made me feel better.

Trucks_69 · 02-03-2010, 07:53 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by 90blueS10

abra kadabra.

http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/w4m/1580074919.html

you sire are fired!

and for the record my ex was 18

Joker Relentless · 02-03-2010, 08:40 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by LowLady

Take v8lonomas word on this one... pee in her butt and the dreams will stop

I think this is the first time I've read a "pee in her butt" comment posted by a female.

dimerunner88 · 02-03-2010, 09:00 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Joker Relentless

I think this is the first time I've read a "pee in her butt" comment posted by a female.

nah,either krissy,sarah or regina have posted it before. its been awhile though

Tim99Zr2 · 02-03-2010, 09:22 PM

Man, this still happens to me from time to time. She was my last serious relationship.occasionally I still have dreams about her and believe I still love her (or really like). If I were given the second chance we would prob date in a heart beat. This girl was from like 3 years and 15 girls ago. So people say to hook up with another girl, it helps but the dreams still come. I think everyone goes through these dreams. Oh yea, we had a veeeeeeery good clousre too, it didn't help obviously. So don't try to call her and talk about it, but if you do call her start out wiith small talk, not relationship talk.

01cherryreds10 · 02-03-2010, 09:27 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by snoplow

"I'm going to go have sex with a bagel after I heat it up in the microwave."

"Butter's in the fridge!"

Wrkn prgs · 02-03-2010, 09:58 PM

Rub one off before you go to bed buddy.

Wrkn prgs · 02-03-2010, 09:59 PM

Oh, I could send Sloane up for a while if you would like?

**deathphoenix99** · 02-04-2010, 11:48 AM

Come up to flint and cruise. Get your mind off of chicks.

Trucks_69 · 02-04-2010, 01:34 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Wrkn prgs

Oh, I could send Sloane up for a while if you would like?

hahahaha... ok that might help.... lmao

Kovz · 02-04-2010, 01:39 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Hucko

Stop turning girls down and start going on dates and dont complain about money.... first dates should hardly cost anything anyway, they are interviews.

Quote: Originally Posted by Trucks_69

and no i'm not gonna do online stuff, they charge money and that's like just this side of prostitution in my eyes

Not trying to dig into a sore subject here, but if you really want a gf, you can't be so frugal with your money. Girls hate cheapness.
As for the online dating websites... most of them have a free 3 day period to see if you like it. Other than that, trying one month to see if it works is basically less than a dinner for 2 if you went out to eat.

By no means is that prostitution. It's not adult friend finder or craigslist personals or anything like that. It's basically a social network to find others with common interests or looking for the same things you are. It's a cool way to interview someone without meeting them. Send a few emails back and forth... if they are worth meeting, then set up a date!

I'll admit it, I joined one for 17 days a while back. I had just got out of relationship and wasn't sure where to meet girls. Living in a new city and working with all men - I didn't want to meet some party girl bar rat. In those 2.5 weeks, I talked to several girls and went on 7 or 8 dates. None of them worked out for me, and I did not meet my current gf through there... but I can attest to it actually working (especially for bigger cities). Just trying to give some friendly advice to you, or others who are seeking a relationship.

Slammed83Mazda · 02-04-2010, 02:05 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Wrkn prgs

Oh, I could send Sloane up for a while if you would like?

Ahhhh what a true friend you are.

MeltingPlastic · 02-04-2010, 02:08 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Kovz

Not trying to dig into a sore subject here, but if you really want a gf, you can't be so frugal with your money. Girls hate cheapness.
As for the online dating websites... most of them have a free 3 day period to see if you like it. Other than that, trying one month to see if it works is basically less than a dinner for 2 if you went out to eat.

By no means is that prostitution. It's not adult friend finder or craigslist personals or anything like that. It's basically a social network to find others with common interests or looking for the same things you are. It's a cool way to interview someone without meeting them. Send a few emails back and forth... if they are worth meeting, then set up a date!

I'll admit it, I joined one for 17 days a while back. I had just got out of relationship and wasn't sure where to meet girls. Living in a new city and working with all men - I didn't want to meet some party girl bar rat. In those 2.5 weeks, I talked to several girls and went on 7 or 8 dates. None of them worked out for me, and I did not meet my current gf through there... but I can attest to it actually working (especially for bigger cities). Just trying to give some friendly advice to you, or others who are seeking a relationship.

I completely agree with Mike. I was the one who told him to check it out. I dated 2 girls for 3-4 months each that i met off match. Granted both of them didnt work out(1 was my fault cause i met someone else i liked more and kinda pushed her to the side lol) but the reality is i'm not going to find my wife at a damn bar. Next one night stand or ex gf sure, but when im at a bar im looking to get laid that night not find a meaningful relationship.

And also, steve, what is your definition of date?? One of the best dates i ever went on was i drove a girl to the jersey shore in the winter(well spring) and we walked around talked and grab a quick lunch... cost me $20 in gas and $25 in food... big whoop.. she loved it, it was simple, and led to better things between us... i'm not saying take a girl out to peter luger's on a first date, but just make it known that you have no problems spending money on things that are important, one of them being the girl you are dating.

dngrous_dime · 02-04-2010, 02:15 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Kovz

Not trying to dig into a sore subject here, but if you really want a gf, you can't be so frugal with your money. Girls hate cheapness.

I dunno about that... I'm going out with a girl on Monday, and she said a movie costs too much. So, we're going bowling, instead. (slightly more expensive than the movie, but probably more fun, anyway)

**supertrucker1978** · 02-04-2010, 02:16 PM

From what I'm seeing, You're trying way too hard. Relax, on thing I've come to realize is that if I'm not happy being alone with myself, who is going to be happy being alone with me. Also, there are free dating sites. Come to find out my mom signed me up (wow, that sounds wierd) and I have met and talked to a few girls. There's noting to be ashamed of finding someone online. Honestly it gets some of the BS out of the way.

stv-lo · 02-04-2010, 02:18 PM

You guys decided that a movie is too expensive, so you opted for something more expensive? SUCKER!

Kovz · 02-04-2010, 02:27 PM

Thanks for chiming in Mike!

Quote: Originally Posted by dngrous_dime

I dunno about that... I'm going out with a girl on Monday, and she said a movie costs too much. So, we're going bowling, instead. (slightly more expensive than the movie, but probably more fun, anyway)

lol, well I'm not saying all girls care about money. The good ones aren't gold diggers either. Renting a dollar movie from red box and laying on the couch together is a good night in my girls eyes. I'm just just backing up Paul's words, by saying don't let money be such an issue.

**supertrucker1978** · 02-04-2010, 02:29 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by dngrous_dime

I dunno about that... I'm going out with a girl on Monday, and she said a movie costs too much. So, we're going bowling, instead. (slightly more expensive than the movie, but probably more fun, anyway)

Is it a first date?

stv-lo · 02-04-2010, 02:34 PM

And last one, too.

dngrous_dime · 02-04-2010, 02:38 PM

lol, yes... First date... If she doesn't know how much I'm spending, it's not really an issue. I don't mind spending a little on a girl, and it could be WAY more expensive.
I chose the more expensive bowling alley because they have an attached arcade and restaurant, and they're fully non-smoking.
It may end up costing less than the movies, depending on how much we bowl, tho.

And yeah, I've gotten advice from Hucko about it already...

**supertrucker1978** · 02-04-2010, 02:45 PM

Movies and first dates don't go well together. Its hard to get to know each other when your staring at a huge screen. Honestly, money should never be an issue when your dating, It's all about having fun

dngrous_dime · 02-04-2010, 02:49 PM

Yeah, after I asked her to dinner and a movie, I changed my mind about it before she even answered. I said I wanted to put a bit more thought into it.

Kovz · 02-04-2010, 02:49 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by supertrucker1978

Movies and first dates don't go well together. Its hard to get to know each other when your staring at a huge screen. Honestly, money should never be an issue when your dating, It's all about having fun

Instead of dumping all this money into our trucks and other toys, use some on enjoying yourself with a lady friend.

firstgenon24s · 02-04-2010, 02:58 PM

is it humanly normal to ask a forum for dating advice and help?

MeltingPlastic · 02-04-2010, 03:01 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Kovz

Instead of dumping all this money into our trucks and other toys, use some on enjoying yourself with a lady friend.

hey my father always said, if you don't have money to spend, you can't/shouldn't be dating and hes 100% right!

stv-lo · 02-04-2010, 03:12 PM

So that's why I'm single.

**supertrucker1978** · 02-04-2010, 03:30 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by MeltingPlastic

hey my father always said, if you don't have money to spend, you can't/shouldn't be dating and hes 100% right!

That's maybe half true.....You have to take into play why you are broke. Is it because you live with your parents and just bought a new xbox, Or because you have a mortgage and a truck payment and your hours just got cut at work. You don't need to break the bank to have a good date. Just go the extra step, make her feel special. You don't need to bring a bouquet of flowers, Bring a single flower. Instead of a fancy dinner, Have a picnic lunch. But just have fun

Trucks_69 · 02-04-2010, 05:09 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by firstgenon24s

is it humanly normal to ask a forum for dating advice and help?

i say yes cause alot of people that have chimed in on this i consider my good close personal friends, and i have gotten alot of insight off this thread...

alrighty, well the answer is no i'm deff not trying too hard, if anything i'm trying to little... lol i don't really go places (espically during the winter)
and here's how i work (or at least how i've done it in the past), if i'm out somewhere... (party, bar, supermarket, pumpkin patch wherever) and i think a girl is cute or whatever i have no problem approaching her i just wait for her to notice me or pay attention to me... then when i can i talk to her yada,yada,yada... but i never really get anything out of it cause i'm either not the girls type or shes not into me or whatever the case may be.
now as of late i have'nt been meeting them because i really haven't been putting myself out there... i guess i really don't know where to go meet new people because well i know alot of people as it is...

as for what my idea of a date is... well i've only had 2 in my lifetime, the first was just us driving around and talking, the 2nd was a tigers baseball game and dinner...
and no i'm not a cheapass not when it counts... i spent quite a bit of cash on my ex without even questioning any of it, i didn't even feel bad. my idea is if i without a doubt like the girl i have no problem spending money...
i guess i could try the dating sites i'm just not sure if it will work.

i just need to get back to the way i was last summer where i was completely content with being alone for the rest of my life, i'm slowly getting back there i'm just at the point where it pisses me off thinking about it, but it will pass with time i'm sure...

MeltingPlastic · 02-04-2010, 05:20 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by Trucks_69

i just need to get back to the way i was last summer where i was completely content with being alone for the rest of my life, i'm slowly getting back there i'm just at the point where it pisses me off thinking about it, but it will pass with time i'm sure...

being "content" with being alone is not the answer. You should want a wife, want a family. If you don't i get it but steve man, from what i know of you, you want all that! If your sitting here saying you are not trying and you know soo many people, then start trying again. The goal is to be HAPPY when you are alone, not THAT you are alone. Trust me, for a few months i was a miserable prick and every girl knew it. I'm walking again and am back to my chipper self and I'm doing pretty well in the girl department! (and i'm 6'1 290lbs, and balding! lol) just go out and have a good time, stop thinking.. and BE YOURSELF!!

Trucks_69 · 02-04-2010, 05:27 PM

hahaha i'm always myself, i don't know whoelse to be lol...

as for being alone, well i've been that way for 99.8% of my life... so i figure i should be used to it... haha i had that faint gleem of false hope and it totally screwed me up something fierce... part of me doesn't even wanna deal with it and just stop, who knows if i will tho

02-03-2010, 12:30 PM	#51
Trucks_69 I'LL CHROME ANYTHING! Age: 24 Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 4,701 Location: Near Detroit User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! wow i'm impressed with all the words of wisdom... paul you nailed it on the head... and i'm totally with you on this one i donnot plan on talking to her at all... she wants nothing to do with me, i get that... and i've been trying to meet new girls but it seems like i haven't been able to meet anyone i can connect with...
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MeltingPlastic Broken Handed Superman Age: 25 Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 5,623 Location: Hackensack, NJ User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by Trucks_69 and i've been trying to meet new girls but it seems like i haven't been able to meet anyone i can connect with... dude do you know how many boring dates i've been on! it takes a while sometimes... and then othertimes, like the girl i was dating last month, i met through a mutual friend at the bar and alice in chains came on and we hit it off completely from there... shes a flake and was a waste of my time in the end but you'd be surprised where/how you meet people
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Trucks_69 I'LL CHROME ANYTHING! Age: 24 Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 4,701 Location: Near Detroit User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by MeltingPlastic dude do you know how many boring dates i've been on! it takes a while sometimes... and then othertimes, like the girl i was dating last month, i met through a mutual friend at the bar and alice in chains came on and we hit it off completely from there... shes a flake and was a waste of my time in the end but you'd be surprised where/how you meet people well i'm going out with this girl friday, i'll give it a shot see where it goes... but i just haven't been meeting many new girls as of late
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02-03-2010, 01:33 PM	#54
CatDaddy52 Registered User Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 1,086 Location: Rochester Hizzle, MI User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Just don't try TOO hard.....then you come across as being desperate. You'll need to put the broken relationship behind you. Just do things with pals that you used to enjoy doing....takes your mind away from bad thoughts. Chalk it up to one of life's learning experiences. Seems like good things happen when you least expect it.
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Trucks_69 I'LL CHROME ANYTHING! Age: 24 Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 4,701 Location: Near Detroit User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! yea i deff don't try too hard
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90blueS10 Calico 1st Gen Age: 17 Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 4,097 Location: Ottawa, Kansas User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! id date you steve. just for a ride in the truck.
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Kovz I RIDE LO Age: 24 Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 10,500 Location: Pittsburgh, PA / Youngstown, OH User is: Online	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by 90blueS10 id date you steve. just for a ride in the truck. know how I know you're gay?
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02-03-2010, 02:06 PM	#58
Kovz I RIDE LO Age: 24 Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 10,500 Location: Pittsburgh, PA / Youngstown, OH User is: Online	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by Trucks_69 well i'm going out with this girl friday, i'll give it a shot see where it goes... but i just haven't been meeting many new girls as of late I know it sounds lame, but have you considered or tried online dating websites? Like match or e-harmony or anything? People laugh at them, but there is some pretty cool chicks on there that are in the same boat as some guys... don't want to meet them at the bar, etc.
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02-03-2010, 02:07 PM	#59
MeltingPlastic Broken Handed Superman Age: 25 Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 5,623 Location: Hackensack, NJ User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by Kovz I know it sounds lame, but have you considered or tried online dating websites? Like match or e-harmony or anything? People laugh at them, but there is some pretty cool chicks on there that are in the same boat as some guys... don't want to meet them at the bar, etc.
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02-03-2010, 02:11 PM	#60
trav308 Registered User Age: 29 Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 30 Location: User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! You sound like me 10yrs ago. Don't call her. Live your life and move on. I was down the same road and moved on. But the minute I got with someone else there she was begging to get back with me. Though I was a dumbass and got back with her. Worst mistake of my life by far. Now i'm with a girl that is distantly related to her and she still tries to cause shit between us and our family. Just a good thing that everyone knows how psycho she is so no one pays much attention to her. But trust me, find a new spot to insert penis and you'll be fine.
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02-03-2010, 02:15 PM	#61
*00xtremeninja* Million Dollar Man Mod Age: 25 Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 7,138 Location: MN User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! it's always when you aren't looking for someone that they end up coming around. just take it easy and see what falls into your life.
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Trucks_69 I'LL CHROME ANYTHING! Age: 24 Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 4,701 Location: Near Detroit User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by Hucko Is this the same girl I had to talk you into going on a date with? The one you wanted to ignore? yes... and no i'm not gonna do online stuff, they charge money and that's like just this side of prostitution in my eyes
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02-03-2010, 03:23 PM	#65
90blueS10 Calico 1st Gen Age: 17 Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 4,097 Location: Ottawa, Kansas User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! abra kadabra. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/w4m/1580074919.html
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02-03-2010, 03:42 PM	#66
stv-lo resident pirate rodent Age: 22 Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 4,246 Location: Indianapolis, IN User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Isn't that a bit of a drive for you, Ryan?
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02-03-2010, 03:55 PM	#67
snoplow s-clusive oh. prez Age: 28 Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 1,669 Location: rittman User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?!
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02-03-2010, 04:09 PM	#68
Sweet Tooth Our Milk Comes In Bags Age: 19 Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 688 Location: Manitoba Canada User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by Hucko she is 17ish, she might not understand anything... and she may not give a shit and hang up is he saying this as in thats how old she is mentally? or just lowering the age so the leg humpers wont ask for pics? if she is actually 17 and your 24 you should be old enough to know that aint going to work. Half your age +7 man thats the rule
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02-03-2010, 04:10 PM	#69
bubbagt57 GOT A NEW S10 WOO Age: 19 Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 2,528 Location: burtonsville, maryland User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! you might be catching "THE GAY"
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bubbagt57 GOT A NEW S10 WOO Age: 19 Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 2,528 Location: burtonsville, maryland User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! but honestly dude life's a bitch being turned down is part of the game, It is what it is and it time to find another one just hit on EVERY GIRL(by every I don't mean every, I mean attractive sane looking that is not dating one of your friends girl)
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02-03-2010, 04:43 PM	#71
kjm762 Registered User Age: 47 Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 624 Location: User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Put the ex-girlfriend in the chipper & all will be good again! Really, the dreams are supposed to be mental house-cleaning, so my wife says. You seem to have some unfinished business with her you feel you need to take care of. Try this, as it worked for me years ago after my 1st wife & I split...sit down & write her a letter with your feelings about what happened, what she did to you & the affects it has had. Go thru it all. Then read the letter. You don't have to mail it. It made me feel better.
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02-03-2010, 07:53 PM	#72
Trucks_69 I'LL CHROME ANYTHING! Age: 24 Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 4,701 Location: Near Detroit User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by 90blueS10 abra kadabra. http://detroit.craigslist.org/wyn/w4m/1580074919.html you sire are fired! and for the record my ex was 18
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02-03-2010, 08:40 PM	#73
Joker Relentless Who's got the fish? Age: 26 Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 6,426 Location: Antartica User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by LowLady Take v8lonomas word on this one... pee in her butt and the dreams will stop I think this is the first time I've read a "pee in her butt" comment posted by a female.
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02-03-2010, 09:00 PM	#74
dimerunner88 whore turned lurker Age: 23 Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 20,216 Location: Clay City,IN User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by Joker Relentless I think this is the first time I've read a "pee in her butt" comment posted by a female. nah,either krissy,sarah or regina have posted it before. its been awhile though
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02-03-2010, 09:22 PM	#75
Tim99Zr2 Fvck New Jersey Age: 21 Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 7,952 Location: Reynoldsville, PA User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Man, this still happens to me from time to time. She was my last serious relationship.occasionally I still have dreams about her and believe I still love her (or really like). If I were given the second chance we would prob date in a heart beat. This girl was from like 3 years and 15 girls ago. So people say to hook up with another girl, it helps but the dreams still come. I think everyone goes through these dreams. Oh yea, we had a veeeeeeery good clousre too, it didn't help obviously. So don't try to call her and talk about it, but if you do call her start out wiith small talk, not relationship talk.
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02-03-2010, 09:27 PM	#76
01cherryreds10 Tim loves his doritos Age: 19 Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 6,191 Location: Illinois User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by snoplow "I'm going to go have sex with a bagel after I heat it up in the microwave." "Butter's in the fridge!"
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02-03-2010, 09:58 PM	#77
Wrkn prgs Useless posting member Age: 21 Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 9,408 Location: Conover, Oh User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Rub one off before you go to bed buddy.
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02-03-2010, 09:59 PM	#78
Wrkn prgs Useless posting member Age: 21 Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 9,408 Location: Conover, Oh User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Oh, I could send Sloane up for a while if you would like?
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02-04-2010, 11:48 AM	#79
deathphoenix99 Electrical guy Age: 20 Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 7,611 Location: Flint, MI User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Come up to flint and cruise. Get your mind off of chicks.
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02-04-2010, 01:34 PM	#80
Trucks_69 I'LL CHROME ANYTHING! Age: 24 Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 4,701 Location: Near Detroit User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by Wrkn prgs Oh, I could send Sloane up for a while if you would like? hahahaha... ok that might help.... lmao
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02-04-2010, 01:39 PM	#81
Kovz I RIDE LO Age: 24 Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 10,500 Location: Pittsburgh, PA / Youngstown, OH User is: Online	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by Hucko Stop turning girls down and start going on dates and dont complain about money.... first dates should hardly cost anything anyway, they are interviews. Quote: Originally Posted by Trucks_69 and no i'm not gonna do online stuff, they charge money and that's like just this side of prostitution in my eyes Not trying to dig into a sore subject here, but if you really want a gf, you can't be so frugal with your money. Girls hate cheapness. As for the online dating websites... most of them have a free 3 day period to see if you like it. Other than that, trying one month to see if it works is basically less than a dinner for 2 if you went out to eat. By no means is that prostitution. It's not adult friend finder or craigslist personals or anything like that. It's basically a social network to find others with common interests or looking for the same things you are. It's a cool way to interview someone without meeting them. Send a few emails back and forth... if they are worth meeting, then set up a date! I'll admit it, I joined one for 17 days a while back. I had just got out of relationship and wasn't sure where to meet girls. Living in a new city and working with all men - I didn't want to meet some party girl bar rat. In those 2.5 weeks, I talked to several girls and went on 7 or 8 dates. None of them worked out for me, and I did not meet my current gf through there... but I can attest to it actually working (especially for bigger cities). Just trying to give some friendly advice to you, or others who are seeking a relationship.
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02-04-2010, 02:05 PM	#82
Slammed83Mazda KentuckyMinis.com Age: 21 Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 3,275 Location: louisville User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by Wrkn prgs Oh, I could send Sloane up for a while if you would like? Ahhhh what a true friend you are.
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02-04-2010, 02:08 PM	#83
MeltingPlastic Broken Handed Superman Age: 25 Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 5,623 Location: Hackensack, NJ User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by Kovz Not trying to dig into a sore subject here, but if you really want a gf, you can't be so frugal with your money. Girls hate cheapness. As for the online dating websites... most of them have a free 3 day period to see if you like it. Other than that, trying one month to see if it works is basically less than a dinner for 2 if you went out to eat. By no means is that prostitution. It's not adult friend finder or craigslist personals or anything like that. It's basically a social network to find others with common interests or looking for the same things you are. It's a cool way to interview someone without meeting them. Send a few emails back and forth... if they are worth meeting, then set up a date! I'll admit it, I joined one for 17 days a while back. I had just got out of relationship and wasn't sure where to meet girls. Living in a new city and working with all men - I didn't want to meet some party girl bar rat. In those 2.5 weeks, I talked to several girls and went on 7 or 8 dates. None of them worked out for me, and I did not meet my current gf through there... but I can attest to it actually working (especially for bigger cities). Just trying to give some friendly advice to you, or others who are seeking a relationship. I completely agree with Mike. I was the one who told him to check it out. I dated 2 girls for 3-4 months each that i met off match. Granted both of them didnt work out(1 was my fault cause i met someone else i liked more and kinda pushed her to the side lol) but the reality is i'm not going to find my wife at a damn bar. Next one night stand or ex gf sure, but when im at a bar im looking to get laid that night not find a meaningful relationship. And also, steve, what is your definition of date?? One of the best dates i ever went on was i drove a girl to the jersey shore in the winter(well spring) and we walked around talked and grab a quick lunch... cost me $20 in gas and $25 in food... big whoop.. she loved it, it was simple, and led to better things between us... i'm not saying take a girl out to peter luger's on a first date, but just make it known that you have no problems spending money on things that are important, one of them being the girl you are dating.
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02-04-2010, 02:15 PM	#84
dngrous_dime Must be the CRACK!!! Age: 30 Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 15,539 Location: 49633 User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Quote: Originally Posted by Kovz Not trying to dig into a sore subject here, but if you really want a gf, you can't be so frugal with your money. Girls hate cheapness. I dunno about that... I'm going out with a girl on Monday, and she said a movie costs too much. So, we're going bowling, instead. (slightly more expensive than the movie, but probably more fun, anyway)
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02-04-2010, 02:16 PM	#85
supertrucker1978 She Does?!?!?! Age: 31 Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,605 Location: MN User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! From what I'm seeing, You're trying way too hard. Relax, on thing I've come to realize is that if I'm not happy being alone with myself, who is going to be happy being alone with me. Also, there are free dating sites. Come to find out my mom signed me up (wow, that sounds wierd) and I have met and talked to a few girls. There's noting to be ashamed of finding someone online. Honestly it gets some of the BS out of the way.
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02-04-2010, 02:18 PM	#86
stv-lo resident pirate rodent Age: 22 Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 4,246 Location: Indianapolis, IN User is: OffLine	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! You guys decided that a movie is too expensive, so you opted for something more expensive? SUCKER!
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02-04-2010, 02:27 PM	#87
Kovz I RIDE LO Age: 24 Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 10,500 Location: Pittsburgh, PA / Youngstown, OH User is: Online	Re: ok seriously... wtf is wrong with me?! Thanks for chiming in Mike! Quote: Originally Posted by dngrous_dime I dunno about that... I'm going out with a girl on Monday, and she said a movie costs too much. So, we're going bowling, instead. (slightly more expensive than the movie, but probably more fun, anyway) lol, well I'm not saying all girls care about money. The good ones aren't gold diggers either. Renting a dollar movie from red box and laying on the couch together is a good night in my girls eyes. I'm just just backing up Paul's words, by saying don't let money be such an issue.
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