I need help, with a girl...

**Dozer600** · 10-05-2009, 12:23 PM

You think that's bad. Wait till you're married

llorracs93s10 · 10-05-2009, 07:10 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by MeltingPlastic

yea heres your next course of action... when is she coming back from her business trip or whatever it was.. another week?

so if she returns monday, call her wed? say you were just out with some friends and x y or z reminded you of her and you realized you hadn't spoken to her in a while and wanted to see how she as doing. This is not a TEXT situation now. You need to step back your game yet step it up at the same time now. IDK how far she is from you but when you call her ask her if she wants to go grab a coffee and just chat up or something, keep it casual as hell... ask her what shes been up to and be interested. Do not even hint about going out with her on another "date" while you are out with her grabbing coffee. After you part ways, wait 2-3 days, if she don't text you, move on.. plain and simple

In the mean time.. go out with your buddies meet some chicks at the local bar or something and have a good time. It works like clockwork if you start talking to other girls the ones from your past(and sometimes even better ones) come knocking at your door

well she came back from her ''bussiness trip'' last saturday. We than went the game on the following tuesday, pretty much a week ago. Since than no communication from her. THough she did say these next two weeks were going to be busy b/c shes going on vacation the end of next week. So she could really be busy, but how busy can you be to not call or text someone once? But i do like the clockwork thing, i hope that shit works, iam going out on this weekend goin to try to find someone, lol. Maybe that will turn my luck around.

Bluefox · 10-05-2009, 07:39 PM

i got 99 problems and a bitch aint one lol.

Bluefox · 10-05-2009, 07:40 PM

i got 99 problems and a !$#@% aint one lol.

hoppy45 · 10-05-2009, 08:13 PM

i just read this and there is some good info on here lol. good luck with her. i need a girl !!

bitchin sonoma · 10-05-2009, 08:13 PM

give her a little stuffed animal a box of chocalates and a rose and give her a kiss on the cheek.

MeltingPlastic · 10-05-2009, 08:34 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by llorracs93s10

well she came back from her ''bussiness trip'' last saturday. We than went the game on the following tuesday, pretty much a week ago. Since than no communication from her. THough she did say these next two weeks were going to be busy b/c shes going on vacation the end of next week. So she could really be busy, but how busy can you be to not call or text someone once? But i do like the clockwork thing, i hope that shit works, iam going out on this weekend goin to try to find someone, lol. Maybe that will turn my luck around.

some girls are like that man, I'm really into this one chick that i've seen twice(met her through a friend) and we've gotten hot and heavy both times, she works in NYC and works a shit ton of hours, so she never really texts me back when i text her so i don't bother much(my friend says she does the same thing to her so i dont worry about it) but honestly, some people are that busy man. I know i leave my cell on my desk at work, if i'm in the lab running around or working on stuff, i never get back to people. if i think its important i will but if its just bs stuff, screw that i got other things to do. but back to that girl, if i text her fri night sat night or sunday she'll get back to me cause shes not at work.

so thats why i said what i did about waiting it out

and yes, it does work like clockwork... started seeing one girl and BAM two/three other girls came into the picture, got rid of that girl and now am seeing another and i've got two other new ones who are interested in me.. just gotta keep yourself free and make yourself seem like a girl should want to be around you.. its called charisma man, just act cool and natural

MeltingPlastic · 10-05-2009, 08:36 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by hoppy45

i just read this and there is some good info on here lol. good luck with her. i need a girl !!

no you don't lol.. if you NEED a girl, you try too hard and screw it up.. key #1 is be happy with yourself and your life, once you're at that stage, girls just come easy cause you're not really trying.. i swear now that i'm happy again with myself i can get girls as easy as i used to. when i broke my leg and was in a bad funk it was harder cause i wasnt the same me.

llorracs93s10 · 10-05-2009, 08:45 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by MeltingPlastic

some girls are like that man, I'm really into this one chick that i've seen twice(met her through a friend) and we've gotten hot and heavy both times, she works in NYC and works a shit ton of hours, so she never really texts me back when i text her so i don't bother much(my friend says she does the same thing to her so i dont worry about it) but honestly, some people are that busy man. I know i leave my cell on my desk at work, if i'm in the lab running around or working on stuff, i never get back to people. if i think its important i will but if its just bs stuff, screw that i got other things to do. but back to that girl, if i text her fri night sat night or sunday she'll get back to me cause shes not at work.

so thats why i said what i did about waiting it out

and yes, it does work like clockwork... started seeing one girl and BAM two/three other girls came into the picture, got rid of that girl and now am seeing another and i've got two other new ones who are interested in me.. just gotta keep yourself free and make yourself seem like a girl should want to be around you.. its called charisma man, just act cool and natural

man i just hope that she gets back with me, cuz ur like hitch right now, lol.

MeltingPlastic · 10-05-2009, 08:47 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by llorracs93s10

man i just hope that she gets back with me, cuz ur like hitch right now, lol.

i accept donations in the form of paypal! lol meltingplastic@aol.com

Half Breed 97 · 10-05-2009, 09:00 PM

i agree just wait and see what happens, i always found that if your activly looking to be with someone it wont happen, just do your thing girls can sense it kinda like a 6th sense. also if/ when she contacts you dont immediatly respond give it at least a couple hours that will give you the time to think about a response and she wont think youve been sitting stareing at your phone the whole time. if you get the third date try holding her hand. if your going in for the kiss take it slow look in her eyes and say id really like to kiss you. her reaction will tell you all you need to know and at least you prolly wont get slapped lol

llorracs93s10 · 10-05-2009, 09:03 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by MeltingPlastic

i accept donations in the form of paypal! lol meltingplastic@aol.com

depends, let me stay at your crib for that show of urs....than imight haha.

seriously though, i'm not going to think about it, but i will try my best to keep my fingers crossed to hear from her, ...

kjm762 · 10-06-2009, 02:07 PM

Are you still working at Food Lion in Elkton?

hoppy45 · 10-06-2009, 04:00 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by MeltingPlastic

no you don't lol.. if you NEED a girl, you try too hard and screw it up.. key #1 is be happy with yourself and your life, once you're at that stage, girls just come easy cause you're not really trying.. i swear now that i'm happy again with myself i can get girls as easy as i used to. when i broke my leg and was in a bad funk it was harder cause i wasnt the same me.

ha that is a good point but i have never had a girl

only 14 thou. when i broke my leg the girls liked it lol

MeltingPlastic · 10-06-2009, 04:20 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by hoppy45

ha that is a good point but i have never had a girl only 14 thou. when i broke my leg the girls liked it lol

haha yea you got time kid, and yes, it was easy to pick up girls when i was on crutches.. but i'm not in it for the easy kill anymore, i enjoy this whole aspect of dating because its like you are stalking your pray if that makes sense... sadly, 2-3 months after i get what i want im gone cause i get bored haha

llorracs93s10 · 10-06-2009, 07:09 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by kjm762

Are you still working at Food Lion in Elkton?

where did you find that out at? haha. And nope, i stepped down at that position to go work somewhere else, but i am now quitting that job to go back to foodlion, but now apparently in North East, MD.

kjm762 · 10-06-2009, 10:34 PM

I don't see your truck there anymore when I drive past.

556mm · 10-06-2009, 10:49 PM

stalker?

llorracs93s10 · 10-06-2009, 11:42 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by lowcherrydime

stalker?

haha, well i did want to have my truck be noticed, so i parked where it could be seen, so i will let this one go, ahaha

llorracs93s10 · 10-06-2009, 11:43 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by kjm762

I don't see your truck there anymore when I drive past.

yea i stopped working there the very end of july early august. Appreciate you noticing the truck! wish some ppl with 4bangers on the streets would notice it too, haha

10-05-2009, 12:23 PM	#101
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10-05-2009, 07:10 PM	#102
llorracs93s10 Registered User Age: 22 Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,210 Location: Middletown, DE User is: Online	Re: I need help, with a girl... Quote: Originally Posted by MeltingPlastic yea heres your next course of action... when is she coming back from her business trip or whatever it was.. another week? so if she returns monday, call her wed? say you were just out with some friends and x y or z reminded you of her and you realized you hadn't spoken to her in a while and wanted to see how she as doing. This is not a TEXT situation now. You need to step back your game yet step it up at the same time now. IDK how far she is from you but when you call her ask her if she wants to go grab a coffee and just chat up or something, keep it casual as hell... ask her what shes been up to and be interested. Do not even hint about going out with her on another "date" while you are out with her grabbing coffee. After you part ways, wait 2-3 days, if she don't text you, move on.. plain and simple In the mean time.. go out with your buddies meet some chicks at the local bar or something and have a good time. It works like clockwork if you start talking to other girls the ones from your past(and sometimes even better ones) come knocking at your door well she came back from her ''bussiness trip'' last saturday. We than went the game on the following tuesday, pretty much a week ago. Since than no communication from her. THough she did say these next two weeks were going to be busy b/c shes going on vacation the end of next week. So she could really be busy, but how busy can you be to not call or text someone once? But i do like the clockwork thing, i hope that shit works, iam going out on this weekend goin to try to find someone, lol. Maybe that will turn my luck around.
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10-05-2009, 07:39 PM	#103
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10-05-2009, 08:13 PM	#105
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10-05-2009, 08:34 PM	#107
MeltingPlastic Broken Handed Superman Age: 25 Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 5,641 Location: Hackensack, NJ User is: Online	Re: I need help, with a girl... Quote: Originally Posted by llorracs93s10 well she came back from her ''bussiness trip'' last saturday. We than went the game on the following tuesday, pretty much a week ago. Since than no communication from her. THough she did say these next two weeks were going to be busy b/c shes going on vacation the end of next week. So she could really be busy, but how busy can you be to not call or text someone once? But i do like the clockwork thing, i hope that shit works, iam going out on this weekend goin to try to find someone, lol. Maybe that will turn my luck around. some girls are like that man, I'm really into this one chick that i've seen twice(met her through a friend) and we've gotten hot and heavy both times, she works in NYC and works a shit ton of hours, so she never really texts me back when i text her so i don't bother much(my friend says she does the same thing to her so i dont worry about it) but honestly, some people are that busy man. I know i leave my cell on my desk at work, if i'm in the lab running around or working on stuff, i never get back to people. if i think its important i will but if its just bs stuff, screw that i got other things to do. but back to that girl, if i text her fri night sat night or sunday she'll get back to me cause shes not at work. so thats why i said what i did about waiting it out and yes, it does work like clockwork... started seeing one girl and BAM two/three other girls came into the picture, got rid of that girl and now am seeing another and i've got two other new ones who are interested in me.. just gotta keep yourself free and make yourself seem like a girl should want to be around you.. its called charisma man, just act cool and natural
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10-05-2009, 08:36 PM	#108
MeltingPlastic Broken Handed Superman Age: 25 Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 5,641 Location: Hackensack, NJ User is: Online	Re: I need help, with a girl... Quote: Originally Posted by hoppy45 i just read this and there is some good info on here lol. good luck with her. i need a girl !! no you don't lol.. if you NEED a girl, you try too hard and screw it up.. key #1 is be happy with yourself and your life, once you're at that stage, girls just come easy cause you're not really trying.. i swear now that i'm happy again with myself i can get girls as easy as i used to. when i broke my leg and was in a bad funk it was harder cause i wasnt the same me.
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10-05-2009, 08:45 PM	#109
llorracs93s10 Registered User Age: 22 Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,210 Location: Middletown, DE User is: Online	Re: I need help, with a girl... Quote: Originally Posted by MeltingPlastic some girls are like that man, I'm really into this one chick that i've seen twice(met her through a friend) and we've gotten hot and heavy both times, she works in NYC and works a shit ton of hours, so she never really texts me back when i text her so i don't bother much(my friend says she does the same thing to her so i dont worry about it) but honestly, some people are that busy man. I know i leave my cell on my desk at work, if i'm in the lab running around or working on stuff, i never get back to people. if i think its important i will but if its just bs stuff, screw that i got other things to do. but back to that girl, if i text her fri night sat night or sunday she'll get back to me cause shes not at work. so thats why i said what i did about waiting it out and yes, it does work like clockwork... started seeing one girl and BAM two/three other girls came into the picture, got rid of that girl and now am seeing another and i've got two other new ones who are interested in me.. just gotta keep yourself free and make yourself seem like a girl should want to be around you.. its called charisma man, just act cool and natural man i just hope that she gets back with me, cuz ur like hitch right now, lol.
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10-05-2009, 08:47 PM	#110
MeltingPlastic Broken Handed Superman Age: 25 Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 5,641 Location: Hackensack, NJ User is: Online	Re: I need help, with a girl... Quote: Originally Posted by llorracs93s10 man i just hope that she gets back with me, cuz ur like hitch right now, lol. i accept donations in the form of paypal! lol meltingplastic@aol.com
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10-05-2009, 09:00 PM	#111
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10-05-2009, 09:03 PM	#112
llorracs93s10 Registered User Age: 22 Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,210 Location: Middletown, DE User is: Online	Re: I need help, with a girl... Quote: Originally Posted by MeltingPlastic i accept donations in the form of paypal! lol meltingplastic@aol.com depends, let me stay at your crib for that show of urs....than imight haha. seriously though, i'm not going to think about it, but i will try my best to keep my fingers crossed to hear from her, ...
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10-06-2009, 02:07 PM	#113
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10-06-2009, 04:00 PM	#114
hoppy45 Registered User Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 414 Location: User is: OffLine	Re: I need help, with a girl... Quote: Originally Posted by MeltingPlastic no you don't lol.. if you NEED a girl, you try too hard and screw it up.. key #1 is be happy with yourself and your life, once you're at that stage, girls just come easy cause you're not really trying.. i swear now that i'm happy again with myself i can get girls as easy as i used to. when i broke my leg and was in a bad funk it was harder cause i wasnt the same me. ha that is a good point but i have never had a girl only 14 thou. when i broke my leg the girls liked it lol
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10-06-2009, 04:20 PM	#115
MeltingPlastic Broken Handed Superman Age: 25 Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 5,641 Location: Hackensack, NJ User is: Online	Re: I need help, with a girl... Quote: Originally Posted by hoppy45 ha that is a good point but i have never had a girl only 14 thou. when i broke my leg the girls liked it lol haha yea you got time kid, and yes, it was easy to pick up girls when i was on crutches.. but i'm not in it for the easy kill anymore, i enjoy this whole aspect of dating because its like you are stalking your pray if that makes sense... sadly, 2-3 months after i get what i want im gone cause i get bored haha
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10-06-2009, 07:09 PM	#116
llorracs93s10 Registered User Age: 22 Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,210 Location: Middletown, DE User is: Online	Re: I need help, with a girl... Quote: Originally Posted by kjm762 Are you still working at Food Lion in Elkton? where did you find that out at? haha. And nope, i stepped down at that position to go work somewhere else, but i am now quitting that job to go back to foodlion, but now apparently in North East, MD.
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10-06-2009, 10:34 PM	#117
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10-06-2009, 10:49 PM	#118
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10-06-2009, 11:42 PM	#119
llorracs93s10 Registered User Age: 22 Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,210 Location: Middletown, DE User is: Online	Re: I need help, with a girl... Quote: Originally Posted by lowcherrydime stalker? haha, well i did want to have my truck be noticed, so i parked where it could be seen, so i will let this one go, ahaha
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10-06-2009, 11:43 PM	#120
llorracs93s10 Registered User Age: 22 Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,210 Location: Middletown, DE User is: Online	Re: I need help, with a girl... Quote: Originally Posted by kjm762 I don't see your truck there anymore when I drive past. yea i stopped working there the very end of july early august. Appreciate you noticing the truck! wish some ppl with 4bangers on the streets would notice it too, haha
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